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October 09
思 -- 思思道
Q:你认真想过自己想要什么吗?
A: 多感受,多体会,多尝试,也许在那一刻,你感受到那种激情,感动,力量。不要觉得自己的理想太平庸,自食其力的你同样对你的家人朋友乃至整个社会有着正面影响。
Q:我知道自己想要什么,怎么样才能实现呢?
A: 我无数次的问过自己这个问题,从来也没有明确的答案,我只知道:惜时如金。做选择不是件容易的事,但是在衡量了所有的因素,倾听了教授家长朋友的意见并作出决定了以后就不要后悔,不要三心二意,不要犹豫不决。向着自己的目标冲刺吧!
Q: 我的选择是最好的吗?
A: 你没有办法知道这条路是不是最好的,也许永远也不会知道,因为你可能没有时间去选择另一条路。但是一旦认定了就不要后悔,尽一切力量让它成为最好的路。我明白了“条条大路通罗马”,我选择的路同样能实现自己的理想,只要我尽力去创造。
思考 追求 享受
May 19 Wulala, pretty spring!!!
Photos are up, enjoy!
Nana, some are specially for you - according to your lovely request -- particularly those flowers. :o)
Oxbridge club - drink - in the garden.
Oxford Cambridge boat race - of course we won!!!
My lovely supervisor is the one in blue!
Art gallery ;-)
April 13 What am I going to do? I am confused.
I am just wondering how do the others make decisions, as adult. The journey of growing up is tough. You find you have to be more and more responsible. Be careful when making dicisions and to be prepared for the oucome, and, responsible for whatever is going to happen.
I just wish god could give me one year, to act as a kid.
Oh dear, am I the only one who thinks in this way? December 17
UK students are lucky, all Major in Drinking and Minor in Party!
Two months life here have been really enjoyable! Way too much drink for me!
As long as don't talk about research and food and weather and cloths and friends in Singapore, China, Germany and all over the place other than UK, I am really enjoying myself a loooot! :-p
November 25 哎呀我的supervisor, 哎呀我的supervisor, 哎呀哎呀哎呀我的supervisor! 我实在不知道说什么,我的supervisor实在是好的呼呼的, 就是一个呼呼!
希望我未来3年一直都是这样感觉的! 哦耶!!
哦哦哦,差点忘了更重要的,希望他也是这样认为我的,虽然困难重重,但我要勇往直前!
呜啦啦 呜啦啦 呜啦啦 ~~~
还有,他经常说我要work smart, 看来我不够smart;也不一定,他总是在我有压力要work longer的时候说。 oh no oh no oh nooooooo,原来我是惆怅酬唱愁肠臭长(真是够臭长的)工作型的。 完蛋啦!!!
呜啦啦~~~
November 12 想不清楚想不清楚还是想不清楚!
我好像想要简单的生活,嗯,也许不是,想不清楚! July 12
QUIZ 下面一组简单的问题,请你认真做完,答案就在你心中 1)写下一个异性的名字 2)你最喜欢的颜色是红色,黑色,蓝色,绿色,还是黄色? 3)你英文名字的第一个字母? 4)你的生日是几月? 5)黑色和白色,你更喜欢哪个? 6)写下一个同性的名字 7) 你最喜欢的数字? 8)你喜欢美国的加利福尼亚州(california) 还是福罗里达州(florida)? 9)你最喜欢湖还是海洋? 10)许个愿望(一个实际的愿望) (解析在本篇最后部分揭晓..)
从一个很久没有联系的同学那里作了这个测试,希望能实现最后的那个愿望,所以赶紧转贴到自己的博客上,虽然很幼稚,但是还是无关痛痒的,所以就试试吧.
附:测验解析 1)你深深的爱着这个人 2)如果你选择: 红色:你是很警戒的人,你的一生中充满了爱 黑色:你很保守,但很自负 绿色:你的灵魂很散懒,而且你是个比较放松的人 蓝色:你是个八爪鱼,同时爱很多人,而且你喜欢你的爱人的吻和爱 黄色:你是个快乐人,而且你给失落的人很好的建议 3)如果你的你英文名字的第一个字母是: a-k 你的一生中会很多爱和友情 l-r 你总是想欢享你的生命,你的爱情生活马上就要开放 s-z 你喜欢帮助他人,而且你的未来的爱情生活充满希望 4)如果你生在: 一月到三月:今年你会很走运,而且你会发现你会意外的爱上一个人 四月到六月:你会有个很强的爱情,这段感情不会很长,但那美好的回忆会让你永生不忘 七月到九月:你会有个很快乐的一年且会经历一个在你一生中好的,很大的改变 十月到十二月:你的爱情不会很好,但最终你会找到你一生的伴侣 5)如果你选择了: 黑色:你的生命将会改变方向,当时看起来似乎很难,但之后你会觉得这个改变是你一生中最好的东西 白色:你有个朋友很信任你,愿意为你做任何事情,但你可能不知道这一点 6)他是你最好的朋友 7)这是你一生中会有的贴心朋友的数目 如果你选了: 加利福尼亚州(california) :你喜欢冒险 福罗里达州(florida):你是个懒散的人 9)如果你选了: 湖:你对你的朋友和爱人很忠诚,且你是个保守的人 海洋:你是个八爪鱼,同时爱很多人,且你想让你爱的人快乐 10)如果你一个小时内重新在另一个地方发表这个测验,你的愿望会在你的下个生日之前实现;如果你看了此贴回复的话,你的愿望会在你十天之内有一个小小的惊喜!
我附加:如果你真的没转贴也没回复的话,真的没关系。我作为你的朋友一样真心的祝福你可以实现你的愿望! 并:期待愿望的实现有时也是一种享受,一种生活有动力有目标的享受;因为,天上没有白掉的馅儿饼。想要实现愿望,你是不是也要努力呢? 所以,就请你享受你的有动力有目标的努力吧!朋友!我祝福你们!! July 07 I have been living in Singapore for 7 years. I love this country and I like the people here. I enjoyed my 7 years here and I had wonderful friends and expiriences here! So lucky and so happy!
Next, I will go to UK for my PhD in Oxford. It is a direct PhD without a master, yeah! I love it! Saved lots of time and effort!
My convocation in NTU is on 25th July 2008, I plan to fly off on 26th to my homecountry, spend sometime with my parents and friends there. And, of course some nice trip as well, going to Hong Kong, Macau, Shen Zhen, Zhu hai and South China, and and, Japan, Osaka, Tokyo, Kyoto, Nagoya, maybe more, wakaka~~~ :D:D
I have not more than 3 weeks left in Singapore, I have to apply 3 visas and wanna do some trip in the country nearby also, but my passport is so busy... wanna do so many things before I leave. Wanna see lots of friends before I leave also, hopeful most of them are back!!!!! It is holiday time now!
So, the important thing for this blog is : tell my friends that I am leaving, and, and, 礼物!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 娃哈哈!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Learn from the wedding, this is a list, choose from it, no bulky and heavy items please!! haha~~~~
1. Apple Laptop, Silver color is preferred. (hee hee, might have to translate to Chinese to my dad in the end)
2. Nokia Handphone.
3. Gucci or Dior or Burberry or Chanel bag, Black color is preferred. P.S. I don't like LV or D&G.
4. A driving lesson fee in UK, Oxford.
5. Any car in UK, Oxford.
6. update next time.
Love from,
PiPi
June 19 08/06/200 Sunday - Such a nice date and day, it is our dearest NaNa's big day!!!
Her almost 7 years love has been promoted to marriage! :o)
Believe me, even you don't know her, you will like her even at the first moment you talk to her.
She is so nice and charming!
Super kind and friendly character!!!
Lucky Dong Liang!!!~~
Here are some pictures from her wedding in Sheraton Hotel, very nice and romantic atmosphere there!!!





By sharing her love moments, we all feel the true happiness from the deep heart,
so precious so simple but so hard!
My best wishes to Nana and Dongliang!!!
May 27 Wahaha, Wulala, Wakaka!!!~~~
Our big day is coming, 5th June, all our results and degree! Wuhu, bless us, please, thanks!!! So, let me enjoy my happy days now!
Here are some photos from our grad night in Quality Hotel, great night!
Bueaties from my class, Mr. Li Hai and Kind of my class, Most charming Professor!
lovely shy boy, Nano tip/wire cute guy, lovely and clever and famous sisi!
Malaysia girl, cute shirt guy, 4 bueaties!
Mr. charming and MC of the night, handsome, another handsome, girl with very nice name - ZiLan
Suhui with lovely smiling face, Pretty girls, FJ with funny pose, wow I love this pic which was taken before i'm leaving to pub with this beauty,
A nice pic with piano, sexy butt wahaha~~~
My darling!!!!!!!!!!! So pretty, right?!!!! Handsome Thomas!
Wahaha, happy happy, 5 months super long holiday! Yeah! Loving holidays!
January 20
What they need is not our additional concern, but just to be treated as normal people!
Love the world and respect them! December 30 A letter to me five years ago, to encourage me to be more brave. I couldn't really understand at that time.
Today, I understand it, though not sure how many percent...
生活是五味的,"酸,甜,苦,辣,涩",美好的岁月总是让人沉醉不识归路,但是,我懂的了不拒绝生活中其他各色的到来,生活是条曲线,生活是一个圆,生命是条曲线,生命亦是一个圆,"酸,甜,苦,辣"是圆中的点,线中的坐标,它不容你选择,勇敢的面对生活,全面的接受生活的人,从不刻意选择,不逃避生活中每一个点,无论快乐,无论责任,享受生活中的幸福,同样要有勇气承受幸福背后的责任,这是一个真正活着的成熟的人所应当认识到的!回避痛苦,回避责任,就是在回避幸福,逃避生活,永远得不到真正的幸福,快乐!是的,幸福往往是短暂的,快乐往往是一瞬的,但是,痛苦也不是长久的,阴郁也不是永恒的,曾经享受了有幸福,又快乐的味道,如今承担些痛苦,责任也是必然的,更何况,有些味道也并不是像你想象的那样的难以面对!面对生活的勇气不是单方面的,是多角度的!
雨过天晴,说不定会有彩虹,但是没有一场酣畅淋漓的"大雨",绝对享受不到彩虹灿烂!
For you, my friends~~ Enjoy your life, be optimistic and be brave! Happy always! It is a hard time for me now, as I have to choose what do I want to do in the next step. It is so difficult to make a decision! I have passion in doing a business, I'd like to work in one of the top IB, I must pursue further study! These three options are totally irrelavent...
Chat with Ye Ye through MSN just now, he reminds me to be practicle... And, he reminds me not to be that selective in choosing **, he said it's not my style to be alone for such a long time. I don't know how to explain... Maybe I don't know what I really want.
Last year and this year had been hard for me as well. Although I had lots of fun in Germany, I still feel like ... According to Ye Ye, it's drifting? Maybe.
Since this christmas, to my birthday, till today, life changed too much. Or I should say my mind, or what I always believe changed too much. Is it what we call grow up?
Meng is fine in Canada, I am happy for her!
I made some wishes in my birthday, I hope, I hope they become true! November 29 Happy happy, finished all the exams on Monday! Yeah!! Love holidays~~~
Outing with beauties from my class:
Christmas lo~~ Yeah~~ Pretty Pretty ya!!! We draw Werewolf, haha, so funny, mine was evaluated to be the funniest! hee~~
Pose Pose, hee hee, at Singapore river! hee hee~~ Pity girl, but so cute, hee hee~~
Romantic Clarke Quay. Cool Pose at Singapore river, hee hee~~
Thanks CF for the funny break live show ha, wakaka~~~
HOLIDAYS!!!! YEAH!!!
September 23
Lessons Learnt from MAS Interview
1. Learn how to say “NO”.
MAS (Monetary Authority of Singapore) called me up, ask if I am interested to go for an interview. Actually I am not interested at all to work there, at least after I graduate. However I don’t know how to say no, I said ok. Because of this "ok" I wasted almost two days, one day to prepare the tons of documents that are required, another day went for the super long interview, which includes group discussion, one to one interview with HR manager, psychometric assessment.
2. Even you don’t want to do something, as long as you agreed, you must be well prepared for that, otherwise you don’t promise.
I went for the interview. I spend a whole afternoon and evening to prepare the documents and to arrange them to be well organized; I spent long time to find nice files to put the original and photocopy documents; I spent about one hour to iron my blazer and skirt… I was just too careless about the interview that I have no motivation to really prepare the potential questions. I even didn’t really know what MAS does.
As you may expect, I had very bad experiences from the interview which kept me down for two days. I was not active in the group discussion, I skip the question “how do I think I can contribute to MAS”, I answered different question from what the HR manager asked about leadership, I can’t recall “the most complicated difficulty that I met before”…
However, it is a good experience for me in another sense - I leant all these precious lessons that I don’t want to repeat any in my life. August 30 Ups and Downs
Life is colorful because it's full of ups and downs, full of excitements and surprises. In our painting of our own life, the sky could be any color, the atmosphere could be any smell, the water could be any taste. It is purely depend on how you paint!
You choose your own life style, firstly you have to choose the right interpretation of everything that happened to you.
I had lots of ups and down very recently. They just happened too close to each other that I cannot distinguish my feelings sometime.
I am still in Dean list, with my pieces of s**t results, totally out of my expectation.
I won the platinum prize in URECA poster exhibition and competition, while I think I was just join for fun.
I did very very very bad for my GRE, even a child from kindergarten who only knows how to click the mouse can have a better result than mine.
I lose out in URECA club P election, with just one vote difference.
Telling myself, as I like colorful stuffs always, I have to paint my life with more colors! August 21 我现在觉得做什么事情都必须一种精神,那就是坚持!就像人家常说的,永不放弃。很多事情失败的原因其实是在还没有争取到真正结果的时候放弃了。人的天性其实是不可想象的,人本身也许会很坏很懒很自私。。。可就是我们接受了教育,我们有自控力,我们有了很多一点点积攒下来的品性,我们不再是放任自流的动物。人与人之间的差别,很大部分在与自我掌控的能力。
June 09 从左边看:一泡可爱的小shit
从右边看:一泡可爱的小shit
从上面看:一泡可爱的小shit
从下面看:一泡可爱的小shit
从前面看:一泡可爱的小shit
从后面看:一泡可爱的小shit
从里面看:一泡可爱的小shit
从外面看:一泡可爱的小shit
从正面看:一泡可爱的小shit
从侧面看:一泡可爱的小shit
不管你怎么看:一泡可爱的小shit
管你怎么看它还是:一泡可爱的小shit
看来看去它是:一泡可爱的小shit
看去又看来它还是:一泡可爱的小shit
看了它它是:一泡可爱的小shit
不看它它还是:一泡可爱的小shit
我算是知道了:发粪涂墙的后果!
从此:阿Q是我偶像!
他说:我Q我怕谁,Exam Result就是a piece of shit!
不过,不过,不过下个学期真的要提高学习效率了!
May 08 这是个古老的皇家城市,也是现代的艺术中 -- 在这著名音乐之都欣赏不朽的华尔兹和歌剧,这里是多瑙河的女神,最棒的coffee,最赞的cake,现代的都市加幽静的乡村,闲暇时享受一下购物的乐趣,或者也可以感受酒吧、街头快餐和舞厅里的休闲气息。陶醉于皇家与现代建筑的错落有致。
她空气的气息是音乐混和着咖啡的~
多瑙河的女神
小时候受爸爸的影响,对多瑙河有一种很向往的神秘的感觉,觉得那一定是一个浪漫又有着特殊味道的地方。不失我所望,真得很有味道,秀色诱人!我们第一次去那里是晚上,隔了两天觉得不爽,早上又去了一次,发现还是晚上有着灯光的多瑙河比较迷人。
美妙的歌剧
许多音乐大师,如莫扎特,贝多芬,舒伯特,海顿,格留克和勃拉姆斯约翰·斯特劳斯父子都曾在此度过多年音乐生涯。唯一遗憾的就是我没能如愿以偿地看到罗密欧与朱丽叶的歌剧,我们就只差了一天给错过了。不过Arabella一点都没让我们失望,一个美丽的爱情故事。。。
回味无穷的咖啡
早就听说维也纳的咖啡非常地棒,我这个从小就对咖啡上了瘾的人更是期望不已。从像白酒盅班小的express到快赶上陕西人吃面的大老碗的coffee,都让我们很是享受。。。
赞的恨不得嫁给一个卖蛋糕的cake
娃哈哈,我的最爱,牛奶制品!说实话有时一次吃多了是有些腻,不过就是喜欢cake刚刚一进到嘴巴里的细腻即融的感觉。。。
幽静的木屋
我们有一天做metro无意间路过这里,马上下车。哇,心情真好。
April 02 考试将近,就是静不下心来学习,每天不知道在忙些什么,一点成就感都没有。 也没有紧张感,完蛋了!
不过昨晚倒是在我人生理想的实现上作了很大的迈步:我要开始做小生意了!
和亲爱的CE第一大美女!
我们做了安排与计划,这次要行动了!
再也不能光想不做了!
这个暑假: 读至少三门Minor的课,做URECA,复习以及考人生第一次大考试(已经报名,7月25好新加坡考。大家都说要准备死一次,我就等着投仙女胎了),开始FYP,做生意!
就这样决定了!
AZA AZA Fighting!!!!!
Fighting Fighting Fightng!!! March 28 WA HA HA
Gifts, letters, voices, pictures, musics from Germany!!!
Ma Ma, I AM HAPPY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I MISS GERMANY SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Super Super Super happy day!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! March 09 在同一个星期内得知这些事:2个朋友失恋了,3个朋友恋爱了。特别注明:都是关系超好的! 我faint!
还要特别注明,其中两个恋爱的是铁树开花了都不恋爱的,其中一个失恋的是4年的感情。。。
在同一个晚上:同时得知两个好友失恋,我马不停蹄的两个同时安慰,聊到凌晨2点多。
可好,估计她们是好些了,但愿。
我郁闷了。
躺在床上就是睡不着。
于是打电话给爸爸,把我说爽了,我睡了。
但是第二天强烈怀疑他郁闷了。。。
February 03 回来要一个月了,心还没回来,刚才小看了一下德国的照片,真想买张机票飞回去。
在德国的日子,就如同天堂一般。不了解自己为什么那么幸运,遇到了那么多的很好很好的朋友。 交往确实没有很深很深的,毕竟只不过半年,可是感情一点也不差。
还清楚地记得,在自己的送行party上,当和一个朋友拥抱告别时,他的眼泪默默的流到了我的脸上,我再也忍不住地哭了。就像旁边没有人一样,抱着Capullo大声的痛哭。想想第二天就要离开大家了,伤心的程度没有办法形容。那晚,几十位朋友,每一个都给我带来过很美好很美好的回忆。
下面的照片是那晚照的,真希望时间可以不流走。
 我亲爱的Capullo,特别善良的墨西哥人,我的邻居。好想念她!她送了我好多东西,都很用心的样子,我抱着她哭得稀里哗啦的。估计他的耳朵要不行了,嘻嘻。
 那天还真是丢人,哭的哗啦啦的。。。
 Surprise晚餐,法国和墨西哥特色的,他们说准备了一下午,因为很费功夫。。。
 看到大家都玩得很尽兴,我也很开心。
 当然自己也是超级开心的,后面是一群酒鬼在调酒。
 我好喜欢的女生,Silvia,和新加坡舍友的名字基本一样,好亲切。
 好可爱的Ali,英文不好,但画画很厉害。画了一张我的像给我,一个感动!
 喝醉了就没有反抗力了,我给他鼻子和嘴上都放的吃的,我怎么这么坏的。
 让我哭得最厉害的导火线之一,收到这面国旗,感动得要疯掉了,一辈子好好珍藏!
 中间的是我的sexy法国邻居Maya,每次一起出去都会因为她而很开心。
 醉的好惨。
 我们三个,Capullo和Maya,哈哈!
 很有绅士风度的和爱打扮的土耳其人。我太热爱他们的食物了,在欧洲很流行:Dunar!
 不知道是谁拍的,好喜欢。 还有后面那个手插兜的,是无敌大好人Michael,帮我了无限多。实在是没有办法回报。
。。。。。。。。。
快乐的时光过得总是好快。 就想做的一场梦一样,怎么也想不清楚这是怎么回事。 明明那些开心的事就像是在眼前一样,可是我现在为什么在新加坡? January 17 在德国半年,都没有机会唱歌。好像这个活动就在亚洲流行而已,真是落伍!
开学的第一个周末去唱歌,心情无比的好。 再加上和两个亲爱的一起,娃哈哈,幸福死啦!!

美女背影一个!哈哈 Micky o!!

Lovely Micky pose

Waiting for the bus... In front of Hall 14

无比深情啊!

美女唱得那叫一个高兴

无比开心地说!

嘻嘻,小孩勿看。 哎,说完了,就知道已经看了。

娃哈哈!!!
January 07 It was great to travel with you!!!
You are so lovely and we've been so nice together.
I will miss the time together with you!!!
I hope I can go to US to see you in future!!!
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